Send It in a Private Message

Comments on people's walls, especially dead people and magnets for criticism. The posts are disturbing and always sound so fake - some people suck at expressing emotions in writing. I can do nothing but come to the conclusion that it is all for show.

When someone dies...
Why the hell would you post on their Facebook wall that you will miss them?

If you do intend to contact them, because you truly believe they will see the post or perhaps you need the outlet - Why the hell do you need the rest of the world to know and see it?!
1. People (Frances) are going to think you are stupid (and are a person of ulterior motives) for the post
2. If you are friends with this person, people know you are mourning. You do not have to express it publicly. It makes people (Frances) uncomfortable.
3. Send a private message to the dead. If you think they will get a wall post, you surely can come to the conclusion that they would get a private message.

head phones

When I walk I don't wear head phones.


When I wait I stare at people and things
why should I pretend to do something else?


does this show security?
I'm still swimming

The key is finding Pat, do this and we solve the puzzle

So I open my Facebook junk messages just to see what's in there. What a gem I did find!

• Conversation started February 28
• 

  4:08pm

  Tiffaney *******

  Hi Frances! My name is Tiffaney and I went to high school with your friend Kyle! I ran into him and his friend Pat downtown about a month ago... he asked if we could all hang out that night but me and my friends were going to a Preds game. I was wondering if you all would like to hang out this weekend... I will be in town for business and would love to catch up! I am asking you instead of him because he didn't mention if he was dating anyone and I know you all talk a lot. Let me know what you think!

Things about this that are weird about this:
1. Tiffaney? I believe your parents spelled your name wrong.
2. Kyle doesn't have a friend named Pat.
3. Kyle hates downtown and refuses to go.
4. The fact that I am the one being contacted when it's Kyle that you know.
5. You know that Kyle and I talk a lot?
6. Kyle does not know who you are.


Kyle's response:
"The name is familiar. I know she's from Waynesville. Did she contact you in some way?"
After reading the message:
"Who the hell is Pat? I don't know any people named Pat. Also I can't recall ever talking to this girl in high school, would not recognize her if I saw her, and never saw her in Nashville."
"That's so weird. I really have no idea. Brett's last name is Patrick. But no. None of that ever happened."
The most important question-
Is someone impersonating me?"

Is it bullying for me to post this? Hard to tell. People are so sensitive these days. I ********* the last name just in case.

Your mind is swimming.

You know those times.
   When you go to bed early
   To face the next day
   And you lie there for hours
   Because your mind is swimming

Swimming with possible solutions
   To all of those problems
   All that you have to do.

Things that I value in a person:
 Intelligence
Ambition
Wit
Laughter
Free will
Free spirit
Cleanliness
Organization
Creativity
Knowledge
Kindness
Trustworthiness

I am so irritated by my surroundings.

A day like every day

On my way home from work, what a bull shit day by the way.

I just wanted some consolation. Not some explanation of the other side. Just someone to tell me I was right and everyone else was wrong. Because that's what you want to hear when you're upset.

The person I really wanted to call for some consolation. The 5 Spot. But it's not a person...if it was it would understand.

What happened at work?
I got reprimanded. Use some tact he said. I could go further, but what's the boring fucking point?

you alone. you forever alone

There is no more trust
There is no more life
because of you

well, this was a strange convo. specifically the come back to me part. fyi this is one of my students in thailand

 

 

 

Today

good eveing

evening

good morning for me

it's 10:18 AM here

cup pom

how are you?

sa bay dee mai

sa bay dee kah

ok nad u

tom a lay u

ok, i don't know that much

what does it mean? tom a lay

teacher i miss u

so much

what do u doing now

right now i am cleaning my room.

teac good bey bye.

what are you doing? are you in a university now?

or next year?

yes

What time you wake up.

Where are you now.

I woke up at 7, because that's when i usually have to wake up for work

I am in America

I help refugees

You'll be back when I return.

be back in thailand?

or are you coming to america?

u don't me

what?

I will come back to thailand soon, but I don't know when

I miss you a lot of my friend's room for you to come back to me.

oh that's very nice, thank you

wath time do u

?

Do you....

I'm going to bed.

ok, good night

thank bye

see you again

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